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NILIF training

Discussion in 'Training & Behavior' started by Mollie's Nana, Jun 10, 2010.

  1. Mollie's Nana

    Mollie's Nana Krypto Super Dog Staff Member Super Moderator

    NILIF ---Nothing in Life is Free


    Undesirable behavior can be caused by many things, including undetected illness. No behavior modification program should begin without first taking the dog to a veterinarian for a complete physical examination. While you're there, give your vet a printed copy of this page and ask if it would be an appropriate technique for you to try. The NILIF program is an accepted standard in dog training/behavior but it is not, and is not intended to be, a substitute for an in-person, professional evaluation of your dog's behavior. This technique is intended for dogs in good health and of sound mind and stable temperament.


    The NILIF program is remarkable because it's effective for such a wide variety of problems. A shy, timid dog becomes more relaxed knowing that he has nothing to worry about, his owner is in charge of all things. A dog that's pushing too hard to become "top dog" learns that the position is not available and that his life is far more enjoyable without the title.

    It is equally successful with dogs that fall anywhere between those two extremes. The program is not difficult to put into effect and it's not time consuming if the dog already knows a few basic obedience commands. I've never seen this technique fail to bring about a positive change in behavior, however, the change can be more profound in some dogs than others. Most owners use this program in conjunction with other behavior modification techniques such as coping with fear or treatment for aggression. It is a perfectly suitable technique for the dog with no major behavior problems that just needs some fine tuning.

    ATTENTION ON DEMAND
    The program begins by eliminating attention on demand. When your dog comes to you and nudges your hand, saying "pet me! pet me!" ignore him. Don't tell him "no", don't push him away. Simply pretend you don't notice him. This has worked for him before, so don't be surprised if he tries harder to get your attention. When he figures out that this no longer works, he'll stop. In a pack situation, the top ranking dogs can demand attention from the lower ranking ones, not the other way around. When you give your dog attention on demand you're telling him that he has more status in the pack than you do. Timid dogs become stressed by having this power and may become clingy. They're never sure when you'll be in charge so they can't relax. What if something scary happens, like a stranger coming in the house? Who will handle that? The timid dog that is demanding of attention can be on edge a lot of the time because he has more responsibility than he can handle.

    Some dogs see their ability to demand attention as confirmation that they are the "alpha", then become difficult to handle when told to "sit" or "down" or some other demand is placed on them. It is not their leadership status that stresses them out, it's the lack of consistency. They may or may not actually be alpha material, but having no one in the pack that is clearly the leader is a bigger problem than having the dog assume that role full time. Dogs are happiest when the pack order is stable. Tension is created by a constant fluctuation of pack leadership.

    EXTINCTION BURSTS
    Your dog already knows that he can demand your attention and he knows what works to get that to happen. As of today, it no longer works, but he doesn't know that yet. We all try harder at something we know works when it stops working. If I gave you a twenty dollar bill every time you clapped your hands together, you'd clap a lot. But, if I suddenly stopped handing you money, even though you were still clapping, you'd clap more and clap louder. You might even get closer to me to make sure I was noticing that you were clapping. You might even shout at me "Hey! I'm clapping like crazy over here, where's the money?". If I didn't respond at all, in any way, you'd stop. It wasn't working anymore. That last try -- that loud, frequent clapping is an extinction burst. If, however, during that extinction burst, I gave you another twenty dollar bill you'd be right back in it. It would take a lot longer to get you to stop clapping because you just learned that if you try hard enough, it will work.

    When your dog learns that the behaviors that used to get him your attention don't work any more he's going to try harder and he's going to have an extinction burst. If you give him attention during that time you will have to work that much harder to get him turned around again. Telling him "no" or pushing him away is not the kind of attention he's after, but it's still attention. Completely ignoring him will work faster and better.

    YOU HAVE THE POWER
    As the human and as his owner you have control of all things that are wonderful in his life. This is the backbone of the NILIF program. You control all of the resources. Playing, attention, food, walks, going in and out of the door, going for a ride in the car, going to the dog park. Anything and everything that your dog wants comes from you. If he's been getting most of these things for free there is no real reason for him to respect your leadership or your ownership of these things. Again, a timid dog is going to be stressed by this situation, a pushy dog is going to be difficult to handle. Both of them would prefer to have you in charge.

    To implement the NILIF program you simply have to have your dog earn his use of your resources. He's hungry? No problem, he simply has to sit before his bowl is put down. He wants to play fetch? Great! He has to "down" before you throw the ball. Want to go for a walk or a ride? He has to sit to get his lead snapped on and has to sit while the front door is opened. He has to sit and wait while the car door is opened and listen for the word (I use "OK") that means "get into the car". When you return he has to wait for the word that means "get out of the car" even if the door is wide open. Don't be too hard on him. He's already learned that he can make all of these decisions on his own. He has a strong history of being in control of when he gets these resources. Enforce the new rules, but keep in mind that he's only doing what he's been taught to do and he's going to need some time to get the hang of it all.

    You're going to have to pay attention to things that you probably haven't noticed before. If you feed your dog from your plate do you just toss him a green bean? No more. He has to earn it. You don't have to use standard obedience commands, any kind of action will do. If your dog knows "shake" or "spin around" or "speak" use those commands. Does your dog sleep on your bed? Teach him that he has to wait for you to say "OK" to get on the bed and he has to get down when you say "off". Teach him to go to his bed, or other designated spot, on command. When he goes to his spot and lays down tell him "stay" and then release him with a treat reward. Having a particular spot where he stays is very helpful for when you have guests or otherwise need him out of the way for a while. It also teaches him that free run of the house is a resource that you control. There are probably many things that your dog sees as valuable resources that I haven't mentioned here.

    The NILIF program should not be a long, drawn out process. All you need to do is enforce a simple command before allowing him access to what he wants. Dinner, for example, should be a two or three second encounter that consists of nothing more than saying "sit", then "good dog!", then putting the bowl down and walking away.

    ATTENTION AND PLAY
    Now that your dog is no longer calling the shots you will have to make an extra effort to provide him with attention and play time. Call him to you, have him "sit" and then lavish him with as much attention as you want. Have him go get his favorite toy and play as long as you both have the energy. The difference is that now you will be the one initiating the attention and beginning the play time. He's going to depend on you now, a lot more than before, to see that he gets what he needs. What he needs most is quality time with you. This would be a good time to enroll in a group obedience class. If his basic obedience is top notch, see about joining an agility class or fly ball team.

    NILIF DOES *NOT* MEAN THAT YOU HAVE TO RESTRICT THE AMOUNT OF ATTENTION YOU GIVE TO YOUR DOG. The NILIF concept speaks to who initiates the attention (you!), not the amount of attention. Go ahead and call your dog to you 100 times a day for hugs and kisses!! You can demand his attention, he can no longer demand yours!

    Within a day or two your dog will see you in a whole new light and will be eager to learn more. Use this time to teach new things, such as 'roll over' or learn the specific names of different toys.

    If you have a shy dog, you'll see a more relaxed dog. There is no longer any reason to worry about much of anything. He now has complete faith in you as his protector and guide. If you have a pushy dog he'll be glad that the fight for leadership is over and his new role is that of devoted and adored pet.
     
  2. mavf32

    mavf32 Little Dog

    I was acctually wondering what NILIF meant, well now I know. Thanks for the info...
     
  3. bjparker4

    bjparker4 Puppy

    Great post, thanks. I need some help. I rescued a pit named Serah about a year and a half ago. When I took her in, she was already house broken, walked on a leash, didn't chew on inappropriate stuff, and had reasonable manners. Over the last year, I've taught her various commands, worked on her ability to use her nose, etc... My wife (Courtney) and I also take her for three mile runs three times a week.

    Right when things were getting into a GREAT routine, we decided that we should help the Waco area out, put off having children and adopt another pit-Petey. Petey is massive. He is shorter than Serah, but weighs about fifteen pounds more. Petey was neutered on Monday afternoon and we brought him home that evening. Since then he's chewed up a lot of stuff. We can't take him running yet because of his stitches. I took him for a 2 mile walk today. Kongs only help a little. We start obedience classes on Monday. Any tips before then?
     
  4. Matt12

    Matt12 Puppy

    this is great and has helped out a lot! thanks
     
  5. I understand ignoring your dog when he wants attention but what do you do when you ignore him and he lays on your lap and falls asleep? I can't push him away. Do I just let him lay there and sleep or do I move him off before it gets to that point? If I am sitting on the couch or on my bed he will come up and lay on me all the time. Is this acceptable or should I take action to prevent it. I have the most problem with this at night. He has permission to sleep with me but he has to be right up in my face. How do I get him to lay at the foot of the bed?
     
  6. BiggHemi

    BiggHemi Puppy

    I'm glad I found this,I believe this is just what me and Hemi needs . I'm liking this PBC more everyday.
     
  7. AdMae

    AdMae Big Dog

    Big Thanks

    Thank you Mollie's Nana,

    I find posts and stickies all over this chat from you, and they are always so helpfully informative!
    :D
     
  8. Sashamae<3

    Sashamae<3 Puppy

    We had a similar situation with Sasha. When we first got her she thought she was a lap dog. We broke her of being on the beds and the couches and not she sits next to you and puts her head on your lap. Much easier to push her head off then her body. Also, she is trained to go to her house, and we are working on bed now...
     
  9. Emsley

    Emsley Puppy

    Sweet post, i will re read this again tomorrow to cement it in.
     
  10. lsmonkey

    lsmonkey Puppy

    Thanks for the great article. I have been practicing NILIF training with my dog. It is always good to read more about it and refresh anything I might leave out. It helps alot!
     
  11. ashleyandizzy

    ashleyandizzy Little Dog

    How on earth did you break her from the couch! Haha Izzy is the most relentless with the couch. It is HERS. We don't use it... EVER it's just a futon as we are in an apartment. But we do plan on buying a house and proper furniture which she will NOT be allowed on... so starting with the futon is probably wise. Plus taking her to other people's houses... they dont want her big shedding body on their dark couches haha.
     
  12. This was a wonderful post! Im so excited to start training our rednose pit. I will be sure to post our results. Thank you!
     
  13. sil3ntq

    sil3ntq Puppy

    I will definitely be using this technique in raising my puppy. Thank you! :)
     
  14. Rozay11

    Rozay11 Puppy

    Great post!! I'm going through the whole jumping around at dinner time as we speak..
     
  15. Tanktastic

    Tanktastic Big Dog

    Another way to look at this is that your dog has a job. Your dog's job is to behave the way you choose and his wages are paid in the things he desires (ear scratches, game of fetch, walks, car rides, play time, cuddle time, special treats). Take a piece of paper and draw a line down the middle. On the top left side write Jobs (these are the things you expect of your dog). On the top right side write payment/wages (these are the things your dog likes and wants from you). When you write your payment list put the list in order (top to bottom) from most desirable to your dog to just kind of likes. Just like any job we have, the better preformed the more rewarding the payment. Consistency is key, when your dog knows what you expect of them they will be better adjusted and happier.
     
  16. ZorMac

    ZorMac Puppy

    Thank you for the post it was an easy and informative read.
     
  17. Thanks, good post. Broken down well. I will continue to read on it, and check with vet. sounds like what my little guy needs for his own peace of mind, and confidence builder.
     
  18. GodForHire

    GodForHire Puppy

    How do I find this in my area?
     
  19. _unoriginal

    _unoriginal Cow Dog Staff Member Super Moderator

    You don't "find" it. It's a training method.
     
  20. #1 stunner

    #1 stunner Good Dog

    I am going to start training as soon as our young dog gets settled in. Very easy to read and understand, and I'm making a copy so my husband reads.... learns... and uses it, because he will interact with this young dog too.

    Thank you very much.
     

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