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The Chihuahua Sleeps Tonight (But Not in My Bed)

Posted October 4, 2007 | 10:51 AM (EST)



The Chihuahua urinates vindictively.*(disclaimer)



At first I didn't believe it, but again and again, evidence stacked up against the Chihuahua: I took the pork chop away from him and he jumped up on the bed, looked me dead in the eye and peed on my pillow.
Often, it's the boyfriend or girlfriend of the Chihuahua owner that insists on the consultation, and then the couple sits in front of me and bickers:
There's nothing wrong with her. She peed in my shoe! That was your fault. You put your shoe in her corner.
It's astounding to me how many Chihuahua owners cannot face up to their dogs' imperfections, and let me tell you, vindictive peeing is not the least of the Chihuahua's crimes. Hands down, the Chihuahua is the most aggressive dog I deal with. I train pit bulls, Rottweilers and mastiffs, but with rare exception these dogs are harmless little daisies compared to the Chihuahua.
Chihuahuas often bark, lunge at and bite dogs twenty-five times their size. They are notorious for biting people in the face, a classic correction bite that means: do what I say. In the dog world, there's an urban myth about a Chihuahua that bit half its owner's ear off in the middle of the night, for rolling toward him in bed. I don't know if it's true, but I believe it. I've had plenty of clients report that their Chihuahua growls at them in bed. Does your dog bite you? I ask this of clients with a certain look in their eye. Only sometimes, they say, when she's mad.
Sometimes when she's mad? People have come to me with Chihuahua-sized bite scars up and down their arms, as insidious and obvious as heroin tracks. These people are abused, codependent, addicted!
Set boundaries, I tell them, but Chihuahua owners, more than all other dog owners, find boundary-setting impossible. They come back to me week after week with confessions of failure. You don't know the faces she gives me. She's depressed. She won't eat. Well of course your dog is sulking, I tell them. She's been demoted and her ego will now have to match her body size.
The truth is, I love (and sometimes hate) Chihuahua owners for this reason: they are honest about the paralyzing power of guilt. Guilt is short-hand for veiled fear, for the conflicted feeling we get when our needs compete with someone else's. What we want most in the world is to be approved of and loved, and to get that we will very quickly put our needs second. Put simply, we're afraid other people (or our dogs) won't like us if we stand up for ourselves. We're afraid they'll find out we're horrible inside, that we don't deserve anyone's love, except maybe the runt of the metaphoric dog litter, and no, not really, we don't deserve even that.
Has anyone out there ever stopped to consider the potency of the Chihuahua as a societal symbol? I mean really, how many of us are slaves to small tyrants?
The Mongolians believe that dogs can be reincarnated as humans, so it must follow that some of us were once dogs.
Evolved since then? I don't think so. I've seen divorcing humans that make the Chihuahua's tactics look amateur. I live in L.A., and I see human Chihuahuas everywhere: executives throwing Evian bottles at their assistants, Land Rovers cutting off hybrids, fist fights over the last pair of Manolos, growling, incessant barking, and yes, believe it, vindictive peeing. I SAW a guy in law school pee on someone else's books two weeks before finals so his self-professed adversary wouldn't be able to study, at least not pleasantly.
All of this leads us to a deeper philosophical question. Why is the Chihuahua so difficult anyway?
First of all, breeding. The Mexicans like their women feisty and they bred the Chihuahua that way too. I sometimes celebrate this, since I'm a similarly bred, feisty, Latin female, but just imagine for a moment that you're a dog. You have all the hunting and territorial instinct of a wolf and you've been shrunk to the size of a large rodent. You can't get any respect. People dress you up in pink ruffles and raincoats, they put red bows on your head and patent leather boots on your feet. When you growl, they laugh. Isn't that cute, they say, he's trying to protect the house! And you're afraid. You're afraid of EVERYTHING because everything is bigger than you. So you growl, you bark, you bite.
Two words: Napoleon Complex.
How can we not feel sorry for the Chihuahua? We feel sorry for human Chihuahuas too. I mean, their inferiority complexes are just so cute, and they can't help their behavior, right?
Wrong. There is hope for the Chihuahua, so long as some of us regain our self-respect.
Step one: with the Chihuahua, as with your prom date, play hard to get. Chances are you've already given too much affection too fast, so start by kicking your Chihuahua out of the bed. If you make your significant other sleep on the couch, or better yet, on the floor on a ratty towel, they get the picture, right? In the dog world, hierarchy is everything. The taller you are the more superior you are in the pack, and the alpha always gets the biggest, tallest, best bed. You know it: your Tempur-pedic King with the down comforter and the 600 thread-count sheets.
Be patient. The little jerk will bark, moan, grovel and whine. You'll probably have to tether him to the foot of the bed or crate him, but within a week he'll get over it.
You must be gentle, but firm. You must be a benevolent dictator.
Step two: make your Chihuahua work for his food and affection. No more free love! Munchkin only gets petted when he sits at your command, or when he does the dishes.
Basic training works. It takes FOREVER, and often there is a battle of wills. It once took me ten days to teach a Chihuahua (Chico) the basic sit. Did I yell at Chico? Did I force him? Did I carry on and say I would abandon him to the rats in the junkyard? No. I enforced gently, or I withdrew the treat, and I went outside, down the block to where he couldn't hear me, and I screamed into the bushes. After Chico yielded to my benevolent dictatorship by condescending to learn the sit, he did whatever I told him to. He licked my toes and looked at me with pathetic and blind adoration.
What can I say? The Chihuahua was bred small, but humans were not. We let other people make us feel small, or worse, we make ourselves small, all because we're afraid people (or dogs, or complete strangers) won't love us any more. Face it. This is the poorest excuse in the world to put up with bad behavior. For every vindictive urinator out there, there's an equally at-fault enabler. If you are putting up with a Chihuahua at home or at work, see the directions above. If you believe yourself a reincarnated Chihuahua ... Well. Hope and pray for a good dog trainer. * DISCLAIMER: I know. There are sweet, behaved, even-tempered Chihuahuas out there perfectly suitable for use as therapy dogs in hospitals. I've met them. Alas, such a Chihuahua has never been brought to me for training.

[Purple]

That was great!

[Michele]

Never mind JC peeing, I just peed reading thatI have to tell you, JC does growl at me in bed if I move an inch, but I do my best at being the alpha..LMAOOOOOOOOOOO..he also peed on my head, that was after I tried being Alpha..

That was a great read

[tat2stuff]

OMG I think I broke a rib laughing so hard

[Purple]

HE PEED ON YOUR HEAD??!!!!

[Dexter's Mom]

Thanks for the read!!! I haven't laughed that hard in over a year! *falls off chair and continues giggling like a 9yr old girl...*

[debo-dumbo-ears]

That was an absolutely fabulous article!

[jeoestreich]

That was super funny!!!

[Michele]

Originally Posted by Purple HE PEED ON YOUR HEAD??!!!!

Yes he did. When he was a pup. I had him in the bed (my mistake) and he peed on my head

[fearlessknight]

That was great...how funny do the little guys get....I just them things...
Michele...HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA thats funny! I am sorry though...but how cute....

[Chiapit]

Michele that is toooo funny....I just have a visual of that and I can't quit laughing

I always tell people who seem nervous about Big Girl ...Don't worry about her, worry about the four pounder behind her....Paco has never bitten anyone, but he has done the growl/snap at so I keep an eye on him. When he seems nervous in a situation he is immediately removed. Whats really funny is when Paco hears something outside he will run to the window, bark, run to big girl, bark, its like he's telling her...Get your butt over here and do something!

And yes...although there is a dog bed on the floor, somehow they both end up in bed with me...and Paco has laid claim to the other pillow...

[Michele]

ya gotta love those chihuahuas

[jeoestreich]

Originally Posted by Chiapit And yes...although there is a dog bed on the floor, somehow they both end up in bed with me...and Paco has laid claim to the other pillow...

At least it is a small dog that has laid claim to the other pillow. When Nate is not in bed, my American Bully puppy laid claim to the pillow. Which usually includes half of my pillow. Not fun